Saying ‘Goodbye’ to Training and ‘Hello’ to the Real Deal
First things first: my address has changed! If you ever feel inclined to send me a card, send it to my new P.O. box in the regional capital, which I’ll visit at least once a month:
LUCIE RUTHERFORD
OFICINA SERPOST
CASILLA Nº64
AV. LUZURIAGA NRO 714
HUARAZ – ANCASH – PERU
COD. POST. D2001
And just like that, 11 weeks of training is up. Since Site Exploration, life and training has been a blur. More than anything, volunteers used these two weeks to soak up our last bits of accessible social time. We hung out every day after training, playing volleyball, grabbing a couple chelas, dancing. In the same light, I spent this time soaking up my last days with my amazing host family. I loved my host mother, Isabel, but it’s the two little girls that I’ll miss the most. The little sisters I never had, and now can confirm I would have been the most bomb older sister of all time. We played chess, tickled each other, watched movies, went to the park. I’m excited to see what beautiful women they become. Emmi is incredibly smart, and Mia has a fire and attitude about her that will either get her in trouble or send her very far, or both.
One of my favorite moments over my last 2 weeks in Chaclacayo was Thanksgiving, the week we got back from Site Exploration. 2 volunteers immediately decided to return to the U.S., and the rest of us realized how easy it could be to leave and be home for Thanksgiving with our families. It set a solemn mood when we all came to that realization, that those 2 volunteers would be sitting at the table with their families while the rest of us were thousands of miles away. But, we came together to have what was honestly one of the most special Thanksgivings of my life. We had a long table, enough for 40+ of us, and everyone brought a good ole American dish. We had it all and more – mac & cheese, turkey, gravy, stuffing, desserts, green bean casserole, mashed potatoes. We cooked together in the morning, ate our massive meal around 3pm, and spent the rest of the day swimming and playing in a volleyball tournament. We hung out until the wee hours of the night, as a family.
We had two final immersion days before Peace Corps let us out into the real world. I co-taught a life skills class to 15 year-olds about making good decisions, of which they actually seemed to enjoy. Coming into Peace Corps, I would have thought that age group would never want to listen to me, but they’ve proved me wrong. Second, I co-led a nutrition session for mothers of babies under 1 year. My group cooked a variety of dishes the night before to showcase: for 6-8 month-olds, liver/potato/pumpkin purée and sangrecita (blood) mousse; for 9-11 month-olds, liver primavera and sangrecita pasta; for 12-23 month-olds, sangrecita chaufa (fried rice) and liver omelets. While these may sound disgusting, they are actually not too bad (with the exception of the liver purée, which no cognizant adult should ever eat). The mothers seemed to love it, asking questions the whole way through. They of course came with all of their children, as there is no one else to watch them, so the room was a bit chaotic. I know this will be a trend in every mother-related event I put on over the next 2 years … mothers will always come with their crying babies and that is something I’ll need to accommodate.
For a final hoorah before swear-in, we had an amazing celebration of our sites with host families, where groups presented their respective regions. Us Ancashinos (a word we may or may not have made up) sang a Quechua song and “danced” (aka stromped back and forth to the beat). We presented chocho, a typical food made of beans, onions, lime juice, tomatoes, and other deliciousness. Naturally, the party culminated in almost 2 hours of dancing, volunteers and host families alike. (photo of me modeling a traditional Ancash skirt)
The final hoorah was our swear-in ceremony, a very emotional day. Not only was this the day I became an official Peace Corps volunteer, but also the day I had to pack all my things, say goodbye to my host family, AND to the amazing friends I have made over the last 2.5 months. Needless to say, there were tears, but that makes me realize how special this situation really is. Looking back to September 11 when I left the U.S., I had a feeling it was going to be great, but I didn’t know the extent to the great people I would meet. My fellow volunteers are people I know I will see for the rest of my life. They have these curiosities and beauty within them, inside and out, that makes them want to make this commitment all the while dealing with the sadness of missing out on everything back home.
Now, I write this from my new home – Pueblo Libre, Ancash, Peru. I have a perfect living space, more than I imagined, really. It’s an apartment-esque situation, with my own room, living room, bathroom, and extra room that I’ve designated a work out space. It’s the house of an aunt who lives in Lima and rarely visits. My back yard is an adobe brick-fenced space with about 7 turkeys (1 of which I’ll be eating at Christmas), and another 15 or so chickens.
The rainy season has just begun, and while that means muddy shoes, it also means greener views, and I will certainly take that exchange. My first three months here has 1 major goal: build relationships. My plan is just to put myself in locations where conversations can be had and invites can be given. For example, my first day here I just camped out in the health post, a little awkwardly at first with nothing concrete to do. I ended up hanging out in the child development office, watching appointments with mothers of little kids and chatting with the nutritionist about upcoming community sessions to combat anemia. I got invited to a meeting with all of Pueblo Libre’s actores sociales (individuals that conduct house visits to pregnant and new mothers), as well as an invite to the health center’s annual Christmas gift exchange.
At the end of my first 3 months, I’ll need to write up a community diagnostic, which essentially is my overview of many facets of the community’s health – including the points of view of mothers, health workers, adolescents, and teachers. Through the diagnostic, I’ll learn what piece of the puzzle I fill in. Whether it’s training teachers to deliver more effective youth health sessions in the colegio, or building the capacity of local community members to guide women through healthy pregnancies, I’m unsure, but the potentialities are endless.
9 thoughts on “Saying ‘Goodbye’ to Training and ‘Hello’ to the Real Deal”
Literally cried reading this in class today lol – so so proud of you and I’m so happy you’re getting these amazing experiences. Can’t wait to keep reading, love you Luc!!
Love you Lex!!! Can’t wait to see you again xoxoxo
p.s. give JJ a big hug and kiss from Auntie Lu
Wow! Love reading all about it! So proud of you Lucielu ❤️
Love you sister <3
I so enjoy your blog. Reading of your host family sisters reminded me of my own training host family in Rosso, Mauritania. The 7- & 9-year-old girls were my shadows, my best friends, and the best language teachers I ever had. I still think of them often, and always smile remembering how much I just loved them. Funny to think, they are probably grandmothers now as that was back in 1986, I think? Being in an Islamic country, my host father was very protective of me. He was a Marabou (not sure of the spelling, but essentially, a religious teacher to the local male children). Every night, I got locked in my room from the outside (for my own protection) with a padlock. The room was barley big enough to stretch out across the floor, a closet really. There was a tiny window just over my head that let in some fresh air, which was desperately needed in the sweltering heat of the Sahel, (the region just south of the Sahara Desert.), but that too, was closed at night creating a stifling, unbreathable, hot air. So many nights I would wake up in the middle of the night in a sweat, just praying for morning to come so I could breathe, and be let out of my jail for the day. Funny, that family really did love me, and I never openly complained about the conditions because I knew they took the responsibility of my safety seriously. But; in hindsight, I now just think “What the Hell!” That host family was in some respects the worst and the best 6 weeks of my 3 months of training. It goes to show, 2 opposite things can be true at the same time.
I’m really looking forward to hearing of your new adventures. This will be the beginning of the some of the best years of your life, and as you already know, the making of lifelong friendships. The time will pass quickly. Soak it all up, and reflect on all that you learn. This is such a great opportunity, that few of your American peers will ever have, nor fully understand. You will have days when you will be sick, or miss your family. It will be tough, but you will endure, and it will strengthen you character and fortitude.
I know we have never met, but I want to thank you for allowing me to follow you along on this journey. I’ve enjoyed the ride thus far.
By the way, just want to let you know how thrilled I was to hear mention of your dad on “The Crown”. Just about fell out of my chair. I’m sure you are so proud of him. He is a humble man, not one to “toot his own horn”, so those of us who can; should.
Hi Holly, WOW your experience during training sounds crazy, thanks for sharing. Props to you for pushing through that experience. So true that there will be bad and good days. I had my first bout of diarrhea/vomiting last night and today, so your message came at the perfect time. This too, shall pass. Hope to meet some day in person! And yes, I am quite the proud daughter these days.
Lucie!!!!
This post made me smile, laugh, and tear up! I’m crying writing this comment oh my goodness this is so so special. I am so proud of you. You are doing magical things and I feel as if I am there with you as I read your stories. Your new setup seems great too (I’d choose that over my old tiny nyc apt any day lol) love those turkeys – how amazing! I love you!!!! I know you are going to make a beautiful ripple in these communities with your openness and warmth, as I’m sure they will make imprints on your heart and mind as well. <3
Love you so much!! So thankful for you <3 p.s. I see yellow butterflies all the time here